First came hi, then came a baby carriage
how does a relationship begin? If someone were to meet another someone for the first time in their lives, an like them, how can they go abt beginning a relationship. Do they go headline into it. Or is friendship required before companionship before love. Should you not take it easy, as a friend once told me, find all you can abt that person. find out if the 2 of you are comfortable in each other company (before their pants). Then probably find more excused to be in each others company. I guess that would be the natural flow of things. But what if through out this time, all you can think about is getting into the other persons time. Self - restraint my child...the word is self-restraint. Damn...why couldn't the word be Seize the moment.
posted by The Grin Reaper at
9:16 PM
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Friendship is the safer, yet tougher route to love. Man, is it hard! Unimaginable tortures await, from irrational, violent jealousy attacks to irrepressible sexual torment. And after all that endurance, the person in question may unwittingly file you into their 'good friend' category - which basically means you're screwed (and not literally) for life! I think its all a matter of timing! My theory:'blurring the edges' goes like this...you make a move when you are not purely a person of the opposite sex (a sexual being - i think most people start off like this in other people's eyes)and not yet a 'friend'.You need to be comfortable acquaintances but not comfortable friends. Basically you need to blur the edges between the potential 'friend'& 'lover'.Before you get filed.I hope this makes sense! (K)
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